How to Keep a Relatively Tidy Home

Now, I am definitely no Marie Kondo, and I’m not even close to the same level as The Home Edit. But, I do take inspiration from them, and I would consider myself to be a fairly tidy person. I believe everything has it’s place, I hate clutter, and I love organization.

Unfortunately, I can’t afford to buy plastic containers for every single ingredient, snack, hair product, and art supply. Believe me, if I could, I would. And if that’s the level of organization your looking for, this isn’t the blog post for you.

No, I consider my home to just be “relatively tidy.” (Remember… I’m the In-the-Middle Mom!) As in, there’s very little clutter, cupboards/drawers are fairly organized, and the house is usually pretty clean. So, if you need a little guidance on how to keep your home at my level of tidy… then please do read!

1 – Everything Needs a Place

This one probably seems pretty obvious, but I believe it is the single most important step to keeping your house tidy. If something doesn’t have a place… it becomes clutter. And you might think all of the items in your home do have a place. But, make sure you think about how specific that place is.

Saying a spatula goes in the kitchen doesn’t really work. Okay, so the spatula goes in a drawer. Which specific drawer? And is it with all of the other spatulas/utensils? Having a very specific place for each item in your home not only helps you find it every time, but keeps it from becoming clutter on the counters, floors, beds, etc.

**NOTE: Being organized and specific about where things go is important, but there’s also nothing wrong with a “junk drawer.” I have a few different junk spots throughout my house. It’s for those miscellaneous items that you need relatively often. Just make sure you keep the “junk” in the same “junk spot” each time you put them away.

2 – Creating More Specific Places for Items

Sometimes the spaces within your home aren’t really meant for storing your items well. This is when you do have to invest in some products to help you better organize and keep things uncluttered. I’ll write a more detailed blog about ways to organize without breaking the budget in the future.

Just for an idea… try to use totes, baskets, shelves, drawer dividers, hooks, cubes, and other containers around your home to create those places for your items. And there’s no need to spend hundreds at The Container Store. Most of my organization products come from Target, Wal-mart, and dollar stores.

3 – Have a Schedule

Nobody likes cleaning or doing house work, but you have to do it to maintain a tidy home. The best thing to do is create a schedule for everyday, every week, every month, every year. I’ll admit that this isn’t my strong point either. But I do try to stick to the same day-to-day chores and a weekly schedule.

I’ll work on another blog post with my particular cleaning schedule. However, everyones schedule is going to be different, so you have to cater it around your own life. As a stay-at-home-mom, I have the luxury of getting things done throughout the day. You may have to plan things for your mornings or nights or weekends. The key is to stick to it so you don’t get behind.

4 – Clean Up as You Go

I know, I know… this one is no fun. But, this is the key to keeping my house tidy. My goal is to leave a room the way I would want to reenter it. Nobody wants to walk into their bedroom and see an unmade bed and clothes on the floor. And I really hate seeing dirty dishes as I walk into the kitchen.

So, I try (and sometimes fail) to clean up immediately. It may not be perfect… I rarely actually make our bed with the sham pillows and all. Sometimes the dishwasher is full and I have to leave dishes in the sink (because I hate hand washing). And there’s times when I’m in a hurry and can’t get the laundry folded.

However, I do my best to clean up everything right after we eat. I flip up the covers right away in the morning. I put all of my makeup/hair products back in the cabinet when I’m done. And I set a good example by having Lily pick up her toys before her bath at night.

5 – Divide and Conquer

Since I’m home during the day, it’s easy for me to take care of most of the housework. But, there are a couple of “chores” I’ve assigned to my husband. And if you live in a household where everyone is busy, it’s definitely necessary to split responsibilities.

So, it may not be easy, and it may cause an argument, but it’s so important to discuss who does what when it comes to taking care of your home. Once you have a plan set in place, it should make it all much easier for the whole family. And don’t be afraid to make to-do lists or chore charts. Involve everyone that is capable of helping.

6 – Involve your Kids at a Young Age

Since the day Lily was born, she’s been by my side as I do housework. And as she’s gotten older, I’ve tried to involve her as much as possible. I don’t remember the last time I’ve folded laundry without her. And I actually wait until she can help me unload the dishwasher because she loves to do it so much!

And ever since she’s been old enough, I’ve had her help me pick up her toys. We have several baskets, boxes, and bins for toys. I’m never picky about where certain toys actually go, just as long as she puts them into a container. The other day (at 17 months old) she surprised me and actually put her blocks away without me telling her. <Insert “mind blown” emoji here.>

It does take some patience, because believe me, laundry will get unfolded and dishes will be taken out one spoon at a time and distractions will happen as toys are picked up. But, I love that I’m teaching her the importance of being tidy, and I hope that it will stick with her.


I personally believe that if you try these 6 tips, you’ll have a less cluttered, more tidy home. Not to mention, you’ll set the bar for your family. I grew up in a tidy home and now I have a tidy home because my mom taught me the importance of it. I’ve already noticed how my husband has been influenced by my habits, and I definitely see how my daughter is beginning to follow in my footsteps.

And if any of these tips feel like a reach for you, just keep trying and eventually, hopefully, they’ll become habits for you too. I remember the days when my laundry sat for a week without getting folded and my dishes sat in the sink for 3 days. Trust me, you can change your ways and it’ll become second nature to you.


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